Loving Compassion

Sacred Relationships of True Love


Loving Compassion is a difficult, profound and subtle subject as people confuse attachment for love as there is good attachments and bad attachments. Saying loving kindness is a stutter, kindness is within Loving Compassion. God is love is fine but when combined with God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit are the same, confusion occurs as compassion is necessary for a clear understanding. People colloquialize love to their perceived relationships rather than knowing God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit and why at least three being are required with the same intent to implement Loving Compassion and Kindness in this universe of dualistic fixation.

Be careful in listening to those who talk of people taking on others sins for sins are best reduced by "sending" purifying luminosity that dissolves sins in others. Do not listen to those with sophisticate arguments of animal and human sacrifice. These people are only trying to gain confidence in hiding their own troubling thoughts to appear calm.

Be careful in listening to those that say there is only one great messenger in the past as God and His Helpers send a continuous stream of capable messengers and protect those messengers as best as possible. If this were not so than earth would soon be destroyed by the violence of many people that cannot be contained.

It is best to development oneself so that one clearly understands and is capable of returning to Heavens and then helping children and others do the same. The problem is that it takes almost a lifetime at best, to clearly develop these skill means and then find others who can concentrate enough to expand the process without corruption occurring. Most people are very practiced in the art of deception for fame, wealth and power rather than truly helping others.

At a high level, the difference between Loving Compassion and Kindness is that compassions is ending suffering while loving is making people happy or joyous. True happiness occurs by returning to heaven and helping others return to heaven. Compassion is helping people understand that true love is helping people return to heaven not expressing attachments and aversions.

One builds Sacred Relationships to help people return to heaven as untoward passions, where one does not have the best interest of others at heart, only makes matters worse by causing further suffering to both.

As one examines the differences between loving kindness and compassion, the differences become so subtle and profound that one cannot discuss them further as it would take to long. The teachers usually says something like, go and meditate and understand this for yourself.

Compassion can be compared to a sword that has a literal and many symbolic meanings.

The sword is symbolic for disciplining those that are too unruly that physical restraint is necessary or the authority to publicly rebuke someone to cause a well remembered discipline.

The sword can be symbolic for the flaming sword of wisdom where one dissolves untoward passion making people ready to receive true or spiritual love causing joy.

The literal use of the sword to disciple others must be clearly followed by skilful actions by the symbolic actions mentioned above.

Suffering is defined by the Four Noble Truths: The unsatisfactoriness of Suffering (all experience sickness, old age and death); The cause of suffering (deluded awareness); The possibility of cessation of suffering (some happiness is experienced by everyone): The path (attaining calmness and clarity) to the cessation of suffering

Loving people with equanimity is the equal taste of bestowing and receiving loving and compassion. Jesus said to love Him more than family members as people are usually attached rather than in a loving relationship with family members. Sibling rivalry can be so intensive to be considered as sexual violence that few families can transform to loving relationships.

Compassionate practices involve confession, repentance and prayer till your body hurts. Compassionate practices bring you to the point where you become open to spiritual love, a point that many people say I am ready to return to heaven rather than saying I am beginning to enter into a true spiritual journey.

Compassionate practices end suffering caused by harming others in body, speech and mind enabling beings to turn to the positive actions of helping others.

By understanding the differences between loving kindness and compassions, one knows that leadership must be by example rather than coercion.

God and His Helpers “send” love to everyone equally and in a sense this is “unconditional” but people have to be able to receive that love. Love can transform people but they have to be ready for it.

This is why it is necessary for “messengers” to teach compassion making people ready to receive love from God.

People do not like this “condition” as people want to be accepted into heaven regardless as to what they have done.

It is your own mind recognizing your past bad actions that prevent people from entering heaven. Your own mind becomes clearer after death and you can still forgive yourself and enter heaven. This is why it is important to pray for people after they have died. Truly forgiving yourself for what one has done is not easy. People become very angry on this point and will try to harm people who say this. This only makes their situation worse.

There is good attachment and bad attachment. Being attached to good people helps even when you cannot love them in a spiritual sense but being close helps until you can spiritually love others and not be attached in some inappropriate ways. This is dangerous as good people can get caught in succumbing to inappropriate behavior and become bad people.

Two example follow to discuss these points. The New King James version is used.

First, is Peter’s denial of Jesus? Matthew 26:33-35 NKJV"

 Peter answered and said to Him, “Even if all are made to stumble because of You, I will never be made to stumble.”

 Jesus said to him, “Assuredly, I say to you that this night, before the rooster crows, you will deny Me three times.”

 Peter said to Him, “Even if I have to die with You, I will not deny You!”

And so said all the disciples."

This public rebuke of Peter would not have been pleasant for Peter, thus this is compassion but when “all the disciples” so said it turned more to loving as all would have experienced joy in their relationships. When Peter (74-75) "

 Then he began to curse and swear, saying, “I do not know the Man!”

Immediately a rooster crowed.  And Peter remembered the word of Jesus who had said to him, “Before the rooster crows, you will deny Me three times.” So he went out and wept bitterly.

" is not joyous so this is compassion. Peter redeems himself and does great things for Christianity.

The second example is Jesus being crucified on the cross and the relationship between God and Jesus.

God cannot directly teach compassion (not explained; too complex) but “sends” a “messenger”, in this case Jesus.

God can only “send” love to Jesus while Jesus is demonstrating both love and compassion during and after the crucifixion. For example the guards breaking the legs and Jesus letting himself expire is complex compassion.

The death, where Jesus, rose from the dead, and ascension is profound Loving Kindness and Compassion.

See Response on Coincidental Joy

Note that failure to understand and perfect loving kindness and compassions opens the door for religious and secular leaders to abuse their positions and people as people do not realize that only discomfort (suffering) during sound prayer and meditations practices is appropriate. These questionable leaders use physical and speech violence to keep people in fear and exhaustion, especially the elderly forced to live on their savings.

At a United Church, after discussing the crucifixion, a woman said to me that it appeared as those I was there and she said the person's name who brought Jesus down from the cross. The name produced a profound reaction.

I do not know if I was there.

See the mission statement for Dautya.

See Loving Compassion for further discussion.

The four joy can be great comfort to people meditating in relative solitude knowing that all the enlighten surround and are inseparably from oneself in this surrounding Mandala.


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